Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone he/she loves so much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But, sometimes a love lost is a love gone forever. No amount of hope can bring back to life a relationship that just died a natural death.
Love can be very treacherous. After denying ourselves of so much and after standing up against the will of our very own families, love can fade without any warning and leave us hurting, wondering where we have gonewrong. Our heart can be blinded by a love that has gone beyond reason. Call it unconditional, but the fact that we are silently hurting inside doesn’t give justice to the sacrifices we had to put up just to keep him/her. We cannot live by the promises they make. After all, they may all be empty and we’d just be hoping for a love that has long been gone, and probably will never be back again.
It will never be easy to forget a loved one. All our efforts in disremembering can be wiped out by just one insignificant display of attention that means nothing to them but may mean the whole world to us. We have to accept the certainty that they’re gone, that they don’t belong to us anymore. I know it’s difficult and tormenting but our wounds will never heal it we don’t stop it from bleeding. We have bled more than we should have. Now, it’s time to heal, time move on. Acceptance is never complete if we still nurture hatred in our hearts.
Set yourself free. Let your heart spread its wings and fly. Remember, it may rain for forty days and forty nights, but it will not rain forever. One day, the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches where we can find rest. One of these is where we will build your nest and start over again. It’s never too late. Remember, we may find love and lose it but when love dies, we never have to die with it.